Why is it better for Christians to lay down their rights and suffer injury than to litigate? In short, why shouldn’t Christians sue one another, and what’s wrong with litigation?
Provide a well-thought out answer to the question above, and address any collateral issues that come to mind, such as,
The failure of the church to teach this principle, or
The possible lack of receptivity in western-minded believers
No, as Christians we should not enter into litigation with one another. There are numerous reasons why. One of the reasons is that we are supposed to be setting an example for the rest of the world to follow and if we are going around suing each other what type of standard are we really giving? Jesus said that you will know who belongs to him by the love they have for one another. In John’s Gospel these are the exact words of Jesus, “By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”(John 13:35, ESV).
Also, when we litigate against one another particularly it shows that we are unwilling to be wronged whether it is for the cause of Christ or not. Peter tells us how Christ handled persecution when he says, “When he was reviled, he did not revile in return; when he suffered, he did not threaten, but continued entrusting himself to him who judges justly.” (1 Peter 2:23, ESV) Therefore if we are supposed to be like Christ we are to take persecution as though it comes with the territory.
It is a shame that most churches will never teach on this topic, not because it is irrelevant for our time but out of fear. There are all of these mega churches preaching heresy, while the church that preaches truth is often condemned as being intolerant. While this principle should be taught even if it is on the larger scale of not expecting to be rich, and always healthy. We want to believe that the life of a Christian is supposed to be easy with no challenges. But that is not what Jesus told his followers, he told them that if the world or even the religious leaders persecuted him because he was teaching truth that they would get the same treatment (Matt 10:16-25).
In the west we have come to believe that culture influences the Bible and it is backwards, the Bible should influence society. And if that is the case we should be willing to give to our brother/sister in Christ and suffer that loss. Look at the believers in Acts who sold everything so that they could share and take care of one another as a community and a body/family of believers. But our western mindset has taught us that we have to look out for numero uno, and to get what is coming to me. That however is not what scripture teaches us it is the exact opposite and until we as a body can begin to exhibit love for one another and not take each other to litigation over things that can be settled at home the world will always think we are a joke.